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  • Fascinating how things that are most relevant to continuing your species are the things with the hardest coded behaviors.
    by WarmWash
  • the only thing that I noticed that changed in me was my sudden understanding of what "fear" really is.

    I had not experienced fear prior to becoming a father. The thought of one of my children being ... i'm not even going to say anything more. Use your imagination. That kind of thing scares me so much more than it did before I was a father.

    by naikrovek
  • The first born defenitely changed me somehow. As if some evolution gene was suddenly ordering me "You will protect this with everything in your power!" The second born, not so much. Perhaps the brain was already settled in the right configuration :)
    by b3lvedere
  • Do any of these studies account for new parent sleep deprivation?
    by derwiki
  • As a dad, I have a strong compulsion to tell (bad) dad jokes. Ideally puns. All the time. I didn't used to be this way.
    by mcbishop
  • Becoming a dad made me a sensitive snowflake crybaby :)

    There were a lot of days on which I cried more than the baby. Diagnosed with anxiety disorder, but then they said it comes with ADHD and probably has little to do with the baby.

    > As many as one in 10 men will experience paternal postnatal depression or anxiety. The symptoms often look different in dads—anger or sudden outbursts

    Oh well.

    by patates
  • Becoming a dad simultaneously made me more empathetic (seeing a little person from the beginning for all they are) but also more impatient (fewer hours in the day), but beyond that not much. Given the notoriety about some of the techniques referenced in this article [0] curious if others notice anything more consistent.

    0: https://academic.oup.com/brain/article/140/8/e53/4032512

    by greenflag
  • Exaggerating a bit, I felt like my old self was dead and I just happened to somehow have inherited his memories.

    But a more concrete thing: While before I might have been saddened about bad things happening to kids, like any normal person would, after having kids myself I experience an stronger reaction:

    I get almost physically ill when I hear about kids getting harmed.

    by fcatalan

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